Thank you for contributing to the list as I requested. And Reformed Baptist, thank's for kind words of support. It's refreshing to see someone else out there who understands the complex and delicate nature of child rearing.
My opinion is that you do not have a clue about raising children, nor do you understand what the job is of a parent to mold a child in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. It is your job to teach a child to put on the whole armor of God as he or she makes a life in this world. It is not your job to insulate a child in a fantasy world that does not exist, so that one day they will not be able to cope.
Had you come into this forum and gotten to know the people a little better, and expressed your views with some amount of common sense, someone might have taken you seriously.
You mentioned Reformed Baptist's posts. He comes across as a responsible parent that is making good decisions for his kids. You do not.
Yes, as I posted above, I made some mistakes, but never did I do anything that would harm my kids or make them prey to the evil of this world. I did teach them how to deal with it. Also, I never imposed my standards for my children on anyone else.
Also, in a church family, there is always advice and guidance from others. I cannot believe that the church you serve in would tolerate your ideas, especially if you are trying to get other families to follow your opinions.
Your finger pointing picture is provocative, your posts are out of line, and frankly, you need to start all over.
Anyone who posts "praying I get to heaven" neither understands Scripture or the Gospel. With that phrase coming to your mind, what makes you qualified to either lead a flock from a local congregation or raise children?