I think you have personal issues. That video is offensive & likely in breech of the standards of this site. You had to search for a video like this one, unless it was already linked on your browser. The fact that you have posted such trash, reveals your unwillingness to take this debate seriously, or your inability to intelligently defend your position. I'm curious, with all the accusations you have leveled against other churches for playing effeminate music, I'd like a list of the churches you have personally attended & witnessed such behavior. Your baseless mischaracterizations of others are a sign of a self-righteous spirit.
I'm saddened that I was subjected to a video like that with no warning.
Seriously - a man who would post that on a public board shows a serious lack of discernment and quite possibly some twisted thoughts.
Honestly, this is one time I do expect an apology.
I didn't need to see that.